I’ve written about this before, on Facebook pages which feature pictures of Malaysian Indian girls, branding them ‘vandi’, have guys write explicit comments about the girls, stating their phone numbers and asking the admin the phone number and location of the featured girls.
I have been crusading against these Facebook pages’ admins and they are adamant profanely that they are doing what they do on Facebook for the sake of Indian culture which is being defiled by Indian girls by dressing as they like and by having boyfriends and later dumping boyfriends for reasons that are unacceptable which I will elaborate as I go along.
Exposing the Facebook pages that defame Indian girls
In the previous post, I largely wrote on how Indian girls on Facebook can protect themselves from such predators who operate on the basal of teaching Indian girls a lesson. I heard this from the rapist Mukesh Singh recently, that he was teaching Jyoti Singh Pandey a lesson by raping her. I can’t see much difference from Mukesh Singh and the admins of such Facebook pages that go by the names, Malaysian Vandi Girls, Malaysian Indian Hotties, Anti Vandi Kes, Malaysian Vandi Girls and that’s all I can find.
Now, the term ‘vandi’ was a big enigma for me in the past. I now found out that a vandi (literally vehicle) is an Indian girl where ‘one can get on and get off’. One who would sleep around with anyone, apparently. The word vandi is also used to describe Indian girls who have a social life which doesn’t go well with the Indian guys’ perception of good Indian girls. Also used to refer to girls who dump their boyfriends.
If having a social life which includes dating, partying, clubbing, sleeping with her boyfriend is an attribute of a bad Indian girl then Indian guys please don’t propose to any Indian girl and take her out. Are you ready? Apparently not, evidenced by my experience and many other Indian girls. If I call Indian guys ‘bro’ they gravely disapprove me of calling them bro except for some close friends, Indian guys I share a platonic relationship with. One guy in Facebook chat gave me the reaction below when I called him bro:
By calling Malaysian Indian guys who talk to me bro, I am displaying the so called ‘good Indian girl’ semblance but most wont’ accept it. You are not even giving Indian girls the chance to be chaste in conversation so that it won’t lead you to profess love later on and we are the vandi. If layan also vandi, tak layan also vandi buat sombong. Indian girls simply CANNOT WIN – the term vandi corners us at every turn. In an attempt to send a clear message to those Indian guys who add me, that I am not interested in a love relationship with them, I call them buddy instead of bro and yet many of them won’t get the message (or pretend not to get my message, being hopeful) and call me ‘dear’, ‘darling’, ‘sweetheart’, ‘sayang’ etc and the next would most probably vandi should I reject their proposal. Senju pandrethu neengeh, aana ketta peru enggelukku.
Many Indian guys take love rejection to heart instead of to head and would go on to assassinate the character of the Indian girl in question (and eventually paint all Indian girls with the same brush, going, “Inthe ponnunggele ippadi than purinji pochu da.”) instead of acknowledging and respecting her decision and then go on to up their ante, polish their game and progress in aspects that matter that will leave the girl feeling, “Ippadi pattavare miss pannitene.” You think by shaming your ex girlfriend, a girl who rejected you or a girl who won’t chat with you despite you messaging her for the umpteenth time by featuring their most private photos, trusted to you, in case of girlfriend on Facebook pages tagging them with the term vandi will make you the most wanted bachelor and will have girls falling at your feet? On the contrary bro. By acting the way you do, you only come across as a sore, vengeful ass who have zero respect for women. Only stupid, lifeless, purposeless, nit picking, lazy and regressive people would start Facebook pages to defame others, in this case, Indian girls. And, you know what, it is an act of intelligence and correct selection on the part of the Indian girls – they chose to not be associated with low living, jarheaded jerks and trigger happy morons like yourselves. You can continue to be so while the Indian girls find Indian guys who are worth it.
Facebook proposals to Indian girls
Many Indian guys on Facebook tend to think that if a girl is friendly with them and have been talking to them for a while, she must definitely has the hots for them. They convince themselves so and when the girl rejects the proposal immediately she becomes a Vandi in their perception. Never mind if she’s still studying and wants to stay not committed to anyone as it will be a distraction, she being not ready for a relationship, she thinking of you just as a friend (unless you are AP Singh, Mukesh Singh’s defence lawyer who opines that girls and boys cannot be just friends which busts your cover, that you add random girls on Facebook with a hidden agenda but the girls you add are vandis and you, Pope Francis), she being hurt due to a past relationship, she already seeing someone or you not meeting the description of her Mr Right/dream guy. Yup bro, all vandis because she rejected your great proposal which sounded, “I have a problem. My problem is love. My solution is you. I LOVE YOU,” or “Nee azhaga irukere nu nenekileh, unna love pannanum nu thoneleh, aana ithellam nadanthurum nu bayama irukku.” I did not make this up. Two guys on Facebook proposed to me like that. To expect Indian girls who are educated, independent, career oriented, financially and emotionally secure and above all know that words are cheap what more teenage pick up lines and Tamil movies’ chat up dialogues to accept your proposal is too much to ask bros. And, your definition of vandi contradicts – vandi is said to sleep with everyone at random but here’s a girl who rejected you and yet she’s a vandi! Make up your minds lah!
This song below from Kaaki Sattai encapsulates the mindset of the Indian guys I dissected in the paragraph above. This is the problem of the youth of the nation, that Indian girls will be like ‘vaangge palaghelam’ and then go on to say ‘just friends’ when a guy proposes and Tamil movies perpetuate this conception screwing many Indian guy’s conjugal thought pattern. And. of course, GST, unemployment, gangsterism, school dropout rate etc are the least of our problems. Nope, I don’t think you’re so cool. I think you are so stupid, so shallow and so off putting.
I was talking to an elderly man about these Indian girls shaming Facebook pages and he was like, ” The other issue is that the Vandis’ themselves like it.” I was peeved and shot back at him that it’s individual rights. And, the guys, if they are so goody goody why sleep with girls and then brand the girls they slept with as vandi? Those guys are saints is it? If a girl who has casual sex is vandi than the aid and abet is vanda. Ithu epdi irukku? And then the man, who has teenage daughters told me to start a guy Vandi Facebook page and I was like, “Enukku vere vele illeh?” Now, I want to ask the admins of Vandi Facebook pages, “Yean da, unggelukku urupadera maari vere vele illeh?”
Vanthutangge Facebook heroes, makkala kaapathe
The admins of such Facebook pages think that they are fulfilling their share of social responsibility and carrying out Indian cultural onus that squarely rests on their shoulders. Manasule Atlas maari sumaithanggi nu nenepu. Tho naa tha Hercules, kili kili nu kilika poren.
People who don’t really have a purpose or ambition in their life and most probably dumped by their girlfriends due to that are trying to be important to the society by coming up with such Facebook pages as if it is an eye opener or life saver instead of rectifying their lives and improve themselves. Preferring to wallow in self pity and under the pretext being morally righteous, they think that they have the right to humiliate all Indian girls and label them vandi. They try to ‘help’ other equally dumb and unmotivated machas out there by identifying vandis. How does that uphold Indian and Hindu culture, I don’t understand.
It is not about the messed up Indian culture that is rife with misogyny like the Tamil saying penn butthi pin butthi, it’s just a pretext used to justify rejection or spurning by Indian girls. These fellas would have been dumped/ignored by some girl who would have seen how dumb and idiotic the guy was, and the guy would’ve been like don’t trust girls, all they do is cheat you and bla bla bla. Create a page to diss every other woman on earth because penises by default = good person and they get off their sad, uneventful life by the number of likes and shares and comments their page gets because nothing satisfies the ego of these low level machas than virtual stimulation. Therein come the other fellas who really want a woman in their life, but will never impress a woman in real life because on a scale from one to ten, they’re less than a one. They will jerk off at the pictures of the girls featured on such salacious Facebook pages only due to the fact these girls are in Malaysia them being so close yet so far. Despite ALL of this, I really don’t understand the dudes who post their numbers at the pictures of girls who are featured on Vandi Facebook pages. How dumb can you be to post your number in a page full of raging boners in the hopes to be added by some girl who most probably blocked the page and its patrons? I find it hilarious and akin to hopeful Indian fellas who comment ‘hi’, ‘I love you’, and then, in sheer frustration, comment, “Why you don’t reply?” at the pictures of Anushka, Trisha, Samantha etc on Facebook. There is a thing of being overconfident in many Indian guys but until they expect Kollywood actresses to layan them reminded me of the dialogue in Chandramukhi below which I modified:
And, you make yourselves look like heroes when all you are cowardly cretins because you do all these on Facebook without the balls to reveal your identity. Deep down, you know that if your cover is blown, you’ll be in trouble with the authorities so you are not a brave superman, rather a wimpy kid who has a full blown ego to cover for all your inadequacies which made your girlfriend dump you. And, I know why you prefer degrading Indian girls rather than elevating yourself to make you desirable to Indian girls. It’s because it’s much easier to incriminate Indian girls as vandi and thevudiya rather than finding a job and sticking to it, to add quality to your CV by taking up a degree/MBA/PhD program, to be committed to your job and impressing your boss which in turn would bring you promotion and a pay rise, to learn additional skills like coding, website design, photo editing, etc, (there are hundreds of such tutorials online) and millions of other ways to improve yourself and your financial status but what do you do? Open Facebook pages to humiliate Indian girls. Enna oru thoora nokku paarvai. Mind you that Indian girls are overtaking Indian guys in tertiary education so Indian guys, you have to strive to be in parallel with your complementing half. You may counter me by saying that Indian girls are money minded, always wanting a financially established man, not a jobless man inspired by dumb Tamil movies you so glorify like Vellai Illatha Pattathari, Yaan and so many others, which despite the heroes being jobless, they still manage to make a beautiful girl fall for them, let me tell you, love doesn’t pay the bills and life is not a Tamil movie. And, I wonder why the wonderful message in the movie Boys escape you. Secret of Success.
I know an Indian male doctor who is 36 years old calling girls vandi and sluts so I think education does not guarantee common sense, the typical Indian macha mentality needs to be tackled. Machas tend to think that they are minor kunjis and they wear their ego as an accessory which is hilarious because it is out of place like our Datuk Saravanan here, wearing shades indoors like it’s macho when it only looks sesat macam rusa masuk kampung. Each time I see a macha with confidence overdrive posting his number at a picture of a girl branded vandi by such Facebook pages, (I visit such pages to report and chastise the admins) I can’t help imagining Datuk Saravanan, copying his boss, Khairy Jamaluddin by constantly having coolers on his nose, indoors and outdoors. Minor kunju toilet ku ponalum anthe karuppu kannadi eh kalatti veppara nu kude santhegam. That’s how you come across when posting your phone numbers at the pictures of girls on the Facebook pages, hoping that she will call you. That’s desperation and it’s not appealing.
The admins allowing this prurient conduct also cakap tak serupa bikin – they say they are protecting Indian culture/teaching Indian girls a lesson and they do it by promoting the girls to lecherous Indian guys looking for an outlet to wank off and a chance to have a free fling. Kalacharem, kalacharem nu sollikittu Facebook vibacharam nadathuringge. Naa thatti keatuthukku enne pacha vandi nu solluvingge. Nalla irukku ungge nyayam.
The fans of such Facebook pages are to be blamed
More than the admins and the suppliers of the pictures of girls who want to exact revenge, the fans are to be blamed predominantly.
The main reason such pages spring up perennially is because people support them by liking and commenting on such pages. That’s the motivation for the admins to keep emerging with such pages featuring girls, calling them vandi, slut as well as mentioning the areas where the girls live.
I am thoroughly disgusted by the people who liked pages that are titled Malaysian Indian Vandi girls, Malaysian Indian Hot girls, etc. What kind of person would support the defaming of females who are someone’s daughter, sister and friend?
Going by the research I made the number of Indians who like Facebook pages with malicious intent towards Indian girls far outnumber Indians who like beneficial Facebook pages dedicated to the betterment of Indians. The shocking thing is, I saw Indian girls supporting the Facebook vandi pages! I have only one thing to say at such girls, “You will know how it feels once you become the victim.”
Stop supporting, liking and commenting on such Facebook pages and they would cease from existing. Without demand, supply will die off.
Remember, these girls you humiliate are of the gender your mother is and in future, you will have daughters. How do you like the thought of some jerk jerking off at the picture of your daughter on such a Facebook page? Ponder on it.