There are always allegations made by guys here that girls always have vested interests, selfish intents and drama play ups in love, as a couple or not. There is no scientific study or statistical survey or poll made to substantiate this. But some guys profess that the Top 5 below do hold some truth. This is not aimed at any girl; this is just a general assessment.
This is the classic case of ‘ava selevu panna than oru loosa thedura.’ In the name of love, guys will lavish gifts on their girlfriends – the yardstick on how much the guy loves the girl is based on how expensive and high end the gifts are. This type of girls get very upset when guys forget their first meeting anniversary, their first month into the relation anniversary and they dump the guy and go on looking for another loosu.
2) The girls who genuinely want guys, are too chicken to say it out loud, and when they gather the guts to say it out, the guy would have already found someone else.
Girls say that they want gender equality but they still wait for guys to make the first approach. And, some fella came up with the theory that Valentine’s Day is the day where girls should propose to guys; girls wait all year long for Valentine’s Day to come only to see guys hitch up with other girls by then.
3) Never propose to girls.
Either the guy will be drowned in a sea of tears, or the girls will start a lecture on the advantages of friendship over a romantic relationship
4) Never trust girls, they break guys; hearts as easily as you break glass.
Yes, men (read guys for those below the age of 30) are brittle creatures. For all that guys say they are, all it takes is that one word, one look, or(in extreme cases) that one slap from girls, to make guys go insane, murder themselves, get drunk, get crazy and become like Kaadhal Barath. In the movie, he was minding his own business until a girl came and destroyed his life. Anyone heard of girls committing suicide for love failure?
5) Think twice before falling irrevocably in love with a girl.
It would be a serious pain to try to get out of the surge euphoria it generates, even though no solid relationship would have been formed. Just a smile from a girl makes a guy sleepless at night and say to his friends,” Macha ava enne paathu siricha le, naa apdiye karanjiten da..” Let’s say they become a couple and later break up at the girl’s doing, “Amma appa othukeleh.. Ennaleh 20 varushama thooki valethe family, en room, engge veetu nai kutti, en roja chedi, en bantal busuk, en teddy bear, en seepu and pinji pone seruppu ellatheyum vittutu un kude varemudiyathu.” Girls are extremely practical and great adapters – they have no qualms in accepting another guy as her husband in an arranged marriage after breaking up whilst dumped guys cultivate a beard and sing,’vaazhve maayam..”
General Advice: Don’t believe in love at first sight.