The catalyst of this article is the rape and sexual harassment cases filed against the founder of a religious center in Setapak known as Siva Sakthi Samaj Seva Sangam. The accused is the bearded fellow in black in the photo below:
This news came in the Malaysian Insider but I saw that many Malaysian Indians failed to read and take in the news in its entirety and preferred to blame the girls instead, that they asked for it.
Rape reality in Malaysia, victim blaming, doubting and shaming
Many were like, ‘why go to religious center when there are temples?’ Idiots like you need to learn about the nature of this particular religious center as opposed to temples and religious cults like RPT. This center offers charity (seva)it doubles up as a care center, single mothers/broken families sending their young kids there to be taken care of while they go to work. Many talk here as though the girls opened their legs to the guruji by going to the center and not temples. At age 12, how many of you made conscious decisions to go to temple or center? And, how many Hindu temples here double up as service centers like churches and mosques?
To those clueless idiots jumping gun, let me break what happened down for you:
1.The kids’ parents were out on a limb and saw the center offering care.
2. So they sent their kids there to be cared for, trusting the guruji.
3. The guruji took advantage of the girls and the parents’ trust – he raped the girls.
4. When the girls complained, their parents didn’t believe them due to trust and gratefulness to the guru.
5. The girls suffered more sexual abuse at the hands of the guruji.
6. Eventually, the girls grew up, took matters into their own hands and went to the police.
Ada paham ka anneh?
The parents/single mothers sent their daughters to the center to be babysat, not to fulfill their spiritual ends. When one doesn’t even have proper food to eat, how will they be able to be religious..?? Soru tha first, rest, next. That’s why temples in India do anna dhanam daily, to fulfill this basic human need. Some people can’t even understand this simple sequence and logic and blame the girls. What is the difference between you and the Delhi gang rapists’ defence lawyers who blame places girls go for their rape? This is the rape reality – blame the victim, not the rapist.
And then, cuckoo brained people ask, ‘why did they take so long to report?’ Another rape reality letting the rapist free from the crime. Cretins like you failed to read the news properly. The girls were sexually abused when they were very young by the guruji, at an age when they can’t fathom what’s being done to them. Plus, the guruji confounded and manipulated the girls saying ‘it’s an act of love’. That’s the SOP of pedophiles. Plus, the parents of the girls didn’t believe the girls when they complained to them that the guruji had been doing ‘things’ to them. If you are a 12 year old, raped by a person who gives the public impression of being trusty and kind, you tell your parents otherwise, your parents don’t believe you, would you go to the police station straightaway? Once the girls grew up, realised what’s been done to them by the guruji, left the center and went to the police. All of you imbeciles, try to understand how petrified and alone the girls felt because their parents refused to believe them.
Feminism and gender blind rape reality
Some dumb people were like, “Here come the Feminazis and girl activists in defiance,” when my friend and I articulated the facts so plainly put in the news but not reaching to some people’s stunted brain cells. You deserve a slap on the face by the woman who gave birth to you. First of all, rape is not equal to feminism but some people are mentality challenged to grasp that rape reality. Secondly, rape occurs to both male and female in many ashrams around the world with various gurujis, not just females. Sathya Sai Baba was accused of molesting and raping male students and followers. He was never accused of raping female followers. How many of you know that? The Hare Rama Hare Krishna association also admitted the physical, mental and sexual abuse of their followers- both male and female. So, here again – rapes and sexual abuse in religious centers occur to both male and female and one glaring thing in common is they mete them out on children. Why? Because they’re most vulnerable and innocent – they don’t know what’s being done to them and can be easily scared, exploited and manipulated. Note that every victim only came out with their sexual abuse accounts at the hands of these trusted gurujis many years later, after they’re adults.
Indians need to revamp their ideas when addressing rapes on females – don’t just dismiss it as feminism and feminists throwing a tantrum. Rape is beyond feminism because it happens to newborn babies, males and elderly people. Parents, believe your children if they tell you accounts of violations made on their bodies. Children won’t lie in this matter simply due to their innocence. This Cadbury rape story is sad.
This rape victim, ignoring, blaming, doubting and shaming is the very reason why we have rapists among Indians who think it’s okay to rape a 12 year old girl who is his own niece, post a video on Facebook and claim he is ambala so he will solve the problem himself and go, “Anthe pulleye naane kalyanam pannikren,” as though he is very noble and that atones his crime. He just destroyed a little girl’s life and he thinks by marrying her, all will be well when he had ruined his own niece’s potential, capacity and her whole future and can tell karuthu on Facebook some more. Periya Karuthu Kandasamy.
This Indian attitude towards rape victims is the very reason why such scoundrels are freely taking advantage of females and still roaming free on the street and can make video and give speech some more without fear and shame. A rapist criminal can show his face publicly and give speech but the rape victims cover their faces. Why? Because people like you ask the victims, ‘why did you go there?’ ‘what were you doing there?’ ‘why did you go with him?’ ‘why so late you report?’ and 1001 other questions as though they can foresee their rape so they should’ve avoided all of it when the interrogation should be rightfully done at the rapist.
And, males can be raped too. Many Indians think rape can only happen to females – nope. But male ego is a hurdle in addressing sexual abuse in males, most of whom have rape done on them when they were little and that male ego backfires. That’s why most men who are raped don’t come forth with their story and prefer to suffer in silence. That’s where feminism comes in to help men – to tell them we recognize male rape too and pain and trauma is gender blind. Many Indians are ignorant that feminism helps men too and Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj helps such men. Since male rape cases rarely makes it to the news, many Indians don’t know it. I hope this article would be an eye opener.
Ambala doesn’t mean you having a dick and sticking your dick up forcefully into a helpless child/females. Ambala is controlling your dick so that it doesn’t rise up just by looking at a little girl/boy or anyone other than your wife/spouse in your bedroom for that matter.