Okay, I am nauseated to say the least by the support & sympathy Malaysian Indians are giving to the 2 Malaysian Indian males who slashed the lady in Port Dickson, one of the men being the lady’s husband due to this video which is uncited and not corroborate any evidence, just a pity seeking, violence justifying and blaming the girl shit which rings hollow but for many, it has become the Gospel Truth. That parang is the justified solution for relationship betrayal that Indian girls commit and that cheating is Indian girls’ second nature.
I wrote this day before yesterday, ‘Violence, a lesson for Malaysian Indian girls?’ and it went viral. I didn’t say and close my mouth and here’s the support for the slashing manifesting at least on Facebook – because the girl had cheated on her husband with another man and the man’s pain is so immense, him slashing his wife is an expression of his heartache so the slashing is something that is justified and should be encouraged so that Indian women would be afeared before even thinking to have an affair.
I say these people better go join ISIS. While ISIS resorts to violence to uphold religion, these people actually think violence can stop Indians girls from cheating on their bf/husband and uphold true love’s pain. Yaarachum true love’s pain nu sonna enekeh ketta kovam varum solliten. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TRUE LOVE AND FIRST LOVE BEING THE LAST & TRUE LOVE. My first love or rather, crush was on actor Siddharth. That’s how realistic true and first love is. Indians should stop harping on true love and true love’s pain then use it to justify violence against women. Indian guys who are being all holier than thou now, deeming women as licentious, don’t put scene like you’ve never wanked at Sunny Leone/Mia Khalifa’s porn and don’t ask from sex from your gf. Shut it. Yenthe ponnum Seethai illai, otthukiren, athe maathiri enthe ambalayum Raman Illai.
And these people put scene as though only Indian women are capable of infidelity while all men’s love is the epitome of deivigha kathal reinforced subliminally by Indian movies, particularly Tamil movies. Shall I tell stories of Indian guys who dump their gfs once ‘matter’ is over? My cousin sister found out her husband keeping another woman at the side. Who frequent red light areas? Indian women? How many Indian single mothers as opposed to Indian single fathers? Ippo all Indian women, like my cousin sister vette parang edutha, oru paye usurode iruka mudiyathu so please mudungge. To be unfaithful, gender isn’t a criteria and a man is more prone to have an affair than a woman because males are naturally wild oats sowers. One doesn’t just simply come up with idioms. You want to keep your woman with you by trying to murder her? May I ask those Indians who support the brutal act unleashed on the lady, you seriously think it’s worth going to jail by doing that? You will kill at betrayal – athu avan pondati, konjuvan, kole pannuvan; kole panna, athe paathutu police cabaret dance ah aadittu irukkum??
Violence isn’t the answer for anything. Stop absorbing all these screwed up Tamil movie ideals. Dei mavane, naa onne onnu kelvi kekren da unande. Anthe ponnu cheat pannalum innoru ambalai kude than da. Anthe ambalaiya yean kutram solla maatringge? Athe time le, oru ambala innoru ponne vechikitta, anthe ponne than kutram solluvingge, anthe ambalaiya vitturuvingge. Ambala na avelo periya appatakera? Ambala mele thappe illaya? Pombelengge tha cheaters and so should kill. Ponggeda!
True love provoked the guy into resorting to violence
It seems the guy implored, told the girl if she won’t come back to him, he’ll commit suicide and when all failed, he became psycho and tried to kill that girl. Yean da, enemo begging, and threatening suicide is the epitome of true love nu peethikiringgele, asingama ille? Love pona life eh poiruchu na artham? People without eyes and legs are living. Unggalukku kannu kaalu lam sariya irunthum ippadi suicide nu poringgele, vekkama ille? Ithukku supporting video oru kedu – avana pannale, anthe ponnu avana panna vechichu nu. Did the girl give the 2 machas machetes and ask them to hack her? Yean la bodoh maari peseringge? Anthe ponnuku pudikle na vittutu poyi vere ponne thede vendithane? Bunga bukan sekuntum. Trying to kill someone who won’t reciprocate/betrayed your love isn’t true love, it’s plain selfishness and morbidity. True love um ille, oru mannum illeh.
Above everything, this type of incidents further besmear the name of our community. Yerkeneve rombe nalla peru, ithuleh ithu onnu than ippo korechel.
The root cause of violence against women among Malaysian Indians
Upbringing of Indian males is skewed and that’s why we see so much violence manifesting from Malaysian Indian males especially those whose age is under 50. These males are told to suppress emotions that are considered girlish like crying, empathizing and being afraid. When from a young age, these males are forced to not show these emotions, they pent up in them. Then, at the tiniest provocation, the pent up emotions explode as anger and anger leads to violence. Also, since crying and being afraid is considered unimportant for a man, them belonging only to females, these Indian males develop the mindset that females are lesser beings than males and can be hurt because she is subhuman.
Here’s a fun scientific fact. The default gender is female -XX and XY chromosome. X is the female chromosome and the male gender has X chromosome. Every male start out as female in the embryo stage – that’s why men have nipples. Every man has a female in him. Crying and being afraid aren’t the differences between male and female. It’s human.
A lot of stories are being narrated regarding this case. I don’t know which is true but justifying violence is wrong. What the men did to the lady is wrong even if she cheated on him. There are better ways to deal with that. It boggles me whether those who support the slashing know the repercussions of the act. We are not in an anarchic society – there’s law and order. If the lady dies, the men will be charged with manslaughter and will be behind bars for life. You support that?? You must be a special kind of stupid to support that. I would love to see you support a man hacking your sister, daughter or granddaughter with a parang only because she cheated on him.
Trying to kill anyone is against the law. Cheating in love isn’t. Athukku nu cheating thappu ille nu sollale. Cheat pandrethu manushan ode yeelbu – cheat panna aan enna penn enna. Violence is never the answer, I stress here. In Sweden, you will go to jail if you hit your child. One quote in Padayappa worth taking onboard is, ‘Anger is the cause of all miseries. One should know how to control it, else life will become miserable.’ Ithellam teriyathe. Yethu kettetho athe tha jorra eduthupingge. Many Indians need anger management and reference points besides Tamil movies – love at first sight, kill at first betrayal. We saw what that results in. Indians need new reference points in order to know how to deal with life and love gone sour. There are thousands of self help books out there and videos online. Go read some Divakaruni or Abdul Kalam’s Wings Of Fire. Grow your Perspective. Get a Real Life. Get Realistic. Life is not a Tamil Movie. Don’t Be Stupid.